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Old 01-02-2011, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle View Post
Well, at pref it is fair to say the chapter as a whole has already decided they like our hypothetical pnm and can see her as a sister, or she wouldn't have been invited to pref.
Emphasis on the bolded.

Hopefully the chapter knows who is clicking with who by pref and pairs them accordingly, but if you end up with an individual sister who just isn't that into you, it could backfire.

It's also a lot different when pref comes after 4 rounds of parties, as opposed to when it's the first invitational round (i.e. the first time a sorority could cut people). Then again, in that situation rush should be deferred anyway...
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