[33girl]

Even whispering it in your rusher's ear - unless you KNOW 90% of the women in the group and know what they're thinking - can come off as desperate or creepy, if you whisper it to the wrong person. I would also think "I wonder if she's sincere or if she's telling EVERYONE this to try and secure a bid?"

Just let your real feelings shine through and don't try to be so cool and collected that no one can get to them. Do you straight up tell a guy on a date that you would love for him to ask you to marry him and ravish you right now? No. You let him know in other more subtle ways. It's the same with rush.