[RedefinedDiva]

You seem a little abrasive in your latest post. How about you take a breather and chill out for a minute because it's not that serious. Now I will carefully respond to your post as to not cause anymore misunderstanding on your topic.

Immediately after your original post, you were given encouragement to help with your saerch and patience. HOWEVER, you retaliated with appreciation for our words, but more or less rejected what we said simply because it may not have been what you wanted to hear. You continued to downplay our advice, as well as put down women as a means to make your point as to why you could not find a "good" woman. This leads to:

When one is "insecure," they tend to put others down as a means of covering up or making up for their own shortcomings. Also, that phase of comments came about after you CONTINUOUSLY tried to convince us that all of the women that you meet are dense or not worthy of your company. If EVERYONE that you meet happens to not be up to par, then, as we suggested, you should do some introspection. IN NO WAY did anyone refer to you being less than a man. That was a conclusion that you drew on your own.

The relationship status of those who have so graciously taken the time to respond to your post is not what's really in question. However, those who choose to respond will do so. I see no point. Aside from that, I can say (for myself only) that I can not list the qualities of a good woman because I am looking for a woman. I don't roll like that. Besides, I feel that qualities to be looked for in the significant other is entirely a PERSONAL matter. Although you put up a good argument, I still can not see how another's opinion can help to influence the type of woman that you want. You are still going to have your personal taste and preference.

No one ever challenged you integrity or character. You are MORE than welcomed to have preferences/requirements for the type of woman you choose to spend time with. The "questions" arose from the fact that NO ONE meets your standards. That's why it was suggested that you evaluate yourself or think about if you were actually sure about what you were looking for. No one is "assuming" anything about you. We are just qouting what you say and responding to it.

You are entitled to wanting the best for yourself. Good luck on your search and hopefully, those who respond after me can can add on more words of encouragement.