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Originally Posted by kt8319
ASTalumna06,
2) Why did the 4 girls disaffiliate (without going into too much detail)?
They felt that sorority life wasn't right for them/AST was not a good fit.
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In other words, they said "it's not you, it's me." It really is true in this case. Just move on. The absolute worst thing for a small chapter is people who aren't into it. 4 blah people in a chapter of 100 is not really a biggie, 4 blah people in a chapter of 17 can bring everything down all the time.
Try having a lock-in or a retreat (if you don't have a house, see if someone has a cabin or even if you could have it in the student center). You can plan some things that are LIGHTLY structured, but honestly the best thing is just to get a couple of dumb movies and sit around laughing with each other. Those are the best times.
