Karen, funny you should mention this. My friend from high school's parents are going thru something like this. They're separated, she moved out into my other friend's house (I worked with her), she's dating some guy. The husband starts dating a new girl. Husband and wife are still talking and still go to dinner and hang out. Wife is insanely, crazy jealous and calls girlfriend to tell her that her husband still loves her. I'm hoping we're not talkin about the same situation cuz u know how small Downriver is.
Now, not proudly, but I have been the other girl, and most of the time not knowingly. Usually the girlfriend is just temporary, and the husband and wife get back together. Sometimes, but rarely, it works out between the girlfriend and husband.
I see marriage differently. You have a legal bond. Engagement is the same, without the bond. This exact story happened to my friend. Needless to say, they got back together.
Dating... you can't really do anything about except be raging pissed off. This also gives u free reign to totally get revenge on the asshole and this girl.
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