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Don't over-think it: you're paired with girls you love, and by the fact that you were extended a bid in formal rush, they think you'd be a great fit. That's all that's necessary for a magical experience.
Though, however magical the experience may be, it is not magic. You have to make it magical.
If you can't make it to the organized events, you need to put the effort out there to get to know your sisters. Depending on the culture of your sorority, this may involve dropping by the house randomly, actively trying to form study groups, or simply grabbing food. Remember: you become close to others through shared activities instead of the other way around. Plus, who'd turn down a sister assuming they don't have anything more important on their agenda?
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