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Originally Posted by chocoholic1113
I've made efforts to be at the house to get to know people but it just kind of stinks because every one of our socials and some of our sisterhoods have been on nights I've had chemistry tests, so I haven't been able to go to any!
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It's always been habit in our Chapter for us to hold our Brotherhood events on Friday afternoons/Friday evenings. Almost every pledge would come to everyone one except for one guy. We thought he just didn't like hanging out with us, but he finally approached us and let us know he kept missing the Brotherhood events because he was working (at Subway).
So last semester we made our weekly Brotherhood event "Pledge Make Me a Sandwich Day" where we all visited him at his work. A little bit really went a long way, and we really got a great chance to bond with him.
Let your sisters know what you're going through and why you feel like you're going through it. Try to help them empathize with you, and I guarantee they will do something to help you out.