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Originally Posted by chocoholic1113
I've made efforts to be at the house to get to know people but it just kind of stinks because every one of our socials and some of our sisterhoods have been on nights I've had chemistry tests, so I haven't been able to go to any!
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Well, that makes a lot more sense. It's not the alcohol that's "bonding" the other girls, it's going to the events that you haven't been to.
Hopefully your next semester schedule will be better and prevent that from happening again. It wouldn't hurt if you have an open comments time at your meetings to stand up and say "I know I haven't been around a lot, but now I'm done with my chem class from hell and I'll finally get to spend more time with everyone. I can't wait!" When someone publicly acknowledges their lack of involvement (whether it was under their control or not) and resolves to remedy the issue it goes a long way towards building goodwill.
Good luck!!