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You need to talk more to your big and get to the bottom of this. If she doesn't have a good answer, you need to get one out of her. Instead of casually talking to her, ask her to grab coffee or something and say that you have concerns and need a talk.
If that doesn't work, it's time to talk to your member educator and possibly even the president.
This type of stuff really depends on some very specific things about you and your sorority, hence why you cannot get a good answer out of a message board. The only people who can give you a good answer are the ones who both you and the sorority very well.
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