it truly depends on how the suggestion was made. it could be a simple as they wanted to get the party started and wanted more guys to dance. they could have been trying to see how you would respond. personally, when i was intending to be a Delta, i would dance voluntarily. it was the safest place to be, so as not to get cornered by anyone. i wouldn't have danced by myself because i would not have wanted to stick out. sometimes no attention is the best attention in these situations. not that i thought that i was in danger, but no one wnats to get sweated at a party. i hope that you haven't been tramatized by this episode. if so, you might want to question whether or not you can persevere through a process.
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