[Drolefille]

K_S, i'm very specific about telling people directly if I'm including them in the heads/asses category. If I'd included PIKA in that statement, I would have said so.

And see my previous comment about the difference between asking questions and making judgments. If you don't think that where PIKA ended up in this conversation was judgmental, that's your prerogative. I didn't make anyone say anything they didn't want to say, and like I said, I'm not moved by the argument that my tone was the problem here.

/or you know, I'm just bitchy because I have an ex or something.

ETA: These are personal opinions btw. Informed by my professional experiences, but personal. The things my professional opinions are oriented towards are more like emotions, thinking patterns, and mental illnesses. In my job I wouldn't call someone a judgmental asshole. Unless I thought it would really clinically benefit him to hear it.