[nittanygirl]

Take a deep breath! You can do it!
Remember the feeling of being organized when your oldest was 9 months old.
Take baby steps to do little things that worked for your then. Had a special drawer for bills that need paid, try to make one again. Once one little thing feels manageable, add in another little thing that helped before.
Although I've never had kids and can COMPLETELY consider the chaos that ensues with children (I see how my mother was -- she's not really an organized person now either though) but I think baby steps are the key to making anything work.