I am finding it extremely interesting that in this discussion everything is seeming to point to a short coming on my part however if the role was reversed as it has been in several topics of this type and I was a female speaking on a lack of good men then it would be as I have heard time and time again I would be given every type of encouraging word to say that there was nothing wrong with me and that I should be patient and just do my thing and live etc.etc.etc
However since I am a man probably saying what many a brother who was not attempting to be a playa,pimp. etc. it is being constantly refrenced that I am insecure, not approaching a young lady right, or just basically a "boy" and not a man
Well how about this for those of you who are responding that are good women and single - why are you alone- and no one has really answered my question about what you as a female thinks makes a good woman- it is strictly an opinion not Bible Law that I was requesting.Mainly because sometimes when we look at people we tend to look from a biased view point or some standard that we our selves do not meet. For the women who have told me to look at self I have and as a person I continue to see the growth in me as an individual- and many of my experiences come from the fact that I have out grown many of the people I am around recognizing that fact I am looking for new areas to meet and find a strong woman- and I am not as shallow as to just not want some one because of their appearance,but if you don't take the time to be concerned about how you look as far as being well kept what does that say about you as a person.
I read post where women said they liked a well kept man, intelligent, confident,nice lips etc. a man with a job/finances someone who appreciated them and all they got were praises and amens however when I as a MAN spoke along the same lines my integrity and character came into question.
And for all of those females who disdained my comment about some females being dense or just wanting them to be silent because they are sounding like complete and utter air heads. How many of you have given out the wrong phone number because a brother was sounding like a complete and utter fool, or looked at another female and said she was stupid or an air head. The basic principal is this do not slander me for being selective about the requirements I have for a female that I want in my life nor simply be nieve enough to think that the list I presented was I complete one- and also ......................
DON'T ASSUME THAT JUST BECAUSE I AM A MAN THAT I DON'T DESIRE A HEALTHY,WHOLESOME, AND SPIRITUAL RELATIONSHIP JUST ASMUCH AS ANY OF YOU WOMEN"
so with that said please look at yourselves and tell me what makes you a good woman and so worthy to speak on behalf of the good women who are not capable of responding.
