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As far as 4 life is concerned. . . when you become an alum, where you like it or not you become a 4 lifer. I personally am at a point in my life when I am so busy with alot of things right now that I don't have time to do the alum thing, or visit my chaper, that sort of things. But I will always be greek and I will always be a ZTA.
Non-Greeks are really hard to deal with because most of the time they have not experienced what was as greek have, and then there are the drop outs who for some reason droped thier greek life. My theory on this is that greek life is like anyother choice that we make in life you either love it or its just not for you. I had may GDI's in college as well as greek friends. Both knew not to talke bad about the other around me because who are we to judge what other choose. Some people do not fit into the greek way of life and thats ok. We as greek must stay aware of this and continue to accept people for this choice what ever it may be.
As for those who only do this for a college experiance. all I have to say is that you are really missing out on the idea of being involved with a brother or sister hood.
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