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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Also, sororities don't make bitches. You were likely such BEFORE you joined.
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Seems uncalled for to me.
Fraternity and Sorority life isn't for everyone. The OP was simply here asking for some outside and anonymous guidance and all of you really lashed out at her. It sounds to me like she probably ended up at a house that wasn't right for her. You can't tell me that there aren't sororities on your campus that you haven't thought of as being particularly bitchy or snobbish (there were certainly sorors and fraternities alike that fit that description on my campus). You were probably just aware of it enough not to join that one. Who knows why she originally felt it right for her, whether it was the prestige, family, the boys, the parties, etc. What is clear though is that now she feels like an outsider and to rectify that has tried to fit in. Perhaps wanting to fit in is a character flaw, but I don't think so, and even if it is, she came here for advice and not to have any such feelings of inadequacy thrown back in her face. In fairness, GC wasn't really established as a support group, but rather a social group...but nevertheless I thought community support was one of the underlying beliefs of most of our organizations.
To the OP, it does sound like you've made your mind up, and it is unfortunate it didn't work out for you, but I do think you may wish to withdraw from the organization.