What do you mean by "seems like" and "comes off like?" Is he saying that he's not interested in a serious/long-term relationship? If he is, believe him. Don't bet on him feeling or acting differently with time. There's no need to rush things, but if you know that what you eventually want is a commitment and he isn't making the same plans, that isn't the kind of factor I'd settle on.
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