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Originally Posted by 33girl
It is not a load of crap. If it was a load of crap, she wouldn't have bothered texting you to tell you to keep trying. They may have only had a few spots open and gave them to women they've known for even longer; or else it is exactly what she said, not enough women feel that they know you well enough to bid you. This is NOT a bad thing. It shows that the sorority wants to make sure the women they choose are a good fit and they're not just bidding people to get their numbers up.
Keep in touch with these women, but it wouldn't hurt to look at other groups as well. Looking at only one group your first semester is not the optimal method of picking a sorority. If any of the groups have a problem with you doing that, cross them off your list.
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Originally Posted by cjfromelhood
Hello, I am currently a freshman bout to end my first semester of college. I have been hanging out with a sorority (two mixers and a game night) and I have gotten to know them all kind of well....
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How big is this chapter? Unless there are only 3 or 4 girls, I doubt you've "gotten to know them all" after 2 mixers and a game night. And turning it around, I'm sure they all haven't been able to get to know you, either.
Look at this as an opportunity to explore your options and/or make sure that this is the sorority that you truly want to be a part of. Meet other sorority women, and also make an effort to hang out with the girls from this sorority. It can't hurt to keep trying with them, but to also look elsewhere for the sorority experience that you want.