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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
You don't have to take my advice, but when you consider him "Mr. Almost Right" then, that (to me) sounds like you're dating on potential, if anything --meaning liking him for who you wish he could be rather than for who he actually is. .
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To piggyback on this comment and what I said in another thread.
Women marry men expecting them to change and they don't.
Men marry women expecting them not to change and they do.
Like I said in the other thread, more humorous than anything else, but there are two types of potential, there is the I see the greatness in you potential (Goals, life aspirations) that you should take a chance on because sometimes people need that outside influence to bring the best out...and there is the I think he will make a great boyfriend, husband, etc, if only he would stop being a playa (personality) which never changes based on the outside influences of another person. That person has to make a conscious decision. Don't confuse the two and you will be fine.