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Originally Posted by LadyLonghorn
You're only making that judgment based on public posts. A whole lot more happened in unsolicited PMs.
I'm confident that those who are in a position to make future decisions will make the right ones for their organizations. That's all I'm going to say about it.
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I understand that but I do not feel any differently unless she made threats or went batshit crazy. Calling someone an asshole or similar because they're rude to you on a messageboard isn't really the end of the world. Like I said, were I an active and expecting every PNM to be mature and graceful under all circumstances, I'd be sorely disappointed. Most adults aren't those things a lot of the time, either. Most especially on the internet.
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Originally Posted by sigmadiva
1. I never said you said this.
2. This is what I said. From your perspective, it may not be all that bad. From someone else's perspective it may be.
From the NPHC perspective it is a big NO-NO to even attempt to ask about membership selection concerning our orgs on the internet. We don't even entertain such questions. When they do occur, the mod for that NPHC org will lock the thread before it can go on.
From an NPC perspective, asking about MS is tolerated if the PNM asks in what a NPC member would consider polite and respectful, otherwise, we get what we just had.
So again, it is different for different people / chapters / orgs. We all just need to recognize and respect that.
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I inferred that from your response to me. It's a fact that different councils work differently, but in this case she was asking about NPC sororities, and I never saw her ask for membership selection details, so I'm confused as to why that has been brought up.
My giving my opinion is does not equate to disrespecting others' just because I disagree with them.