Turn it around.
Impress on BiL that fiancee most likely wants the proposal to be something special (even if she has picked out the ring) with its own special time and place, not just blending into someone else's wedding.
If I was the fiancee to be in that situation, unless it was the wedding of someone who I was VERY VERY VERY extremely close to, I would be irked. I'm surmising the people whose wedding it is don't mean jack to her other than being her bf's cousin.
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