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Old 11-23-2010, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted by sigmadiva View Post
I was with you until you said this (in bold).

This is where the Councils differ. It is nothing to see an active 96 year old member of a NPHC org still wearing letters, and is just as involved as a grad (alumnae member) as they were in undergrad.

In NPHC we are taught that membership is continuous over your life time.

In reference to When Dove's Cry's confusion - I think some people look at membership in terms of being financial.
financial = member
not financial = not a member

A lot of greeks are financial as undergrads, but may not be as a grad member due to new life expectations - family, home, cars, bills, paying off school loans. All of that seems to take precedent to greek org dues.
I think you misunderstood what I was saying. I am not at all saying that you shouldn't be active as an alum, but that it is different. There are just as many ways to be active as an alum as there are when a member is a collegian, but they are not the same ways, generally speaking. I absolutely did not say that alums shouldn't wear letters, and I have always personally been taught from day one my membership is lifelong.

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow View Post
Agreed with all, but I think she meant that it's not necessarily appropriate for said 96-year-old member to jump into a strut line at Pajama Jam or show up to an undergrad's house party.
Yes, this is what I mean. Thanks.
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