This has been discussed before ... in reality, AXD would only not invite NBOs to join if a) their grades were below the minimum (in which case the girl in question could get her grades up and join later) or if b) AXD found out something dreadful about the girl (she's wanted for murder in six states). The truth is, rejecting a member the group has already accepted is likely to not sit well with the other girls, so AXD wouldn't do it because she wasn't "pretty enough" or involved enough or something.
While I am biased of course, Corina, I hope you all end up as part of whichever national org seems to suit you when it comes down to time to decide. But the work won't be done when you get that pledge pin ... you will have to learn about a new org all over again, and your sisterhood will be tested as you rapidly grow. I feel confident that you can meet all these challenges, of course. You've already gotten over the biggest hurdles - making NBO a real, viable organization, and getting nationals interested in you.
Just think, in large part because of your efforts, girls who come to UCSC in five years will have a real choice in sororities - they won't have to go through rush with only one sorority to choose from, and the Greek world at USCS will be much stronger for that.
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