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Old 11-08-2010, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted by victoriana View Post
Just to throw in my two cents: I met the most attractive black man I have ever seen today. He had dreads.

Sorry if my use of "black man" offended anyone. I just have different things I'm attracted to in white guys vs. black guys. Now I'm all worried about upsetting someone because someone just got torn a new one for saying they thought dreads were nasty.
Uhhhh...your "thinking out loud" about offending someone is more offensive (and annoying) than what you said.

I find nothing wrong with saying you saw the most attractive Black man because you're talking about your idea of attractiveness and you aren't saying that Black men are the least attractive men. Physical attractiveness is influenced by all sorts of factors including the physical features that tend to be assigned to races and ethnicities.

I am now interested in the different things that you're attracted to for white guys vs. Black guys. That's a fun topic that really makes sense when we look at what attraction is about.
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