I have to agree with you LibraSoul (Great Libra minds think alike!
) You need to stop worrying about what makes a "good" woman and start concentrating on being a "good" man. I am not trying to blow on you or put you down, but if you are such a "good" man, why can't you find a woman?
Before I continue, let me ask you a few questions.
1. Where do you meet these women that you date?
2. Is that short list of qualities all that you look for in a woman? (If so, I can name about 100 women off top that would fit that mold)
3. Do you think that those few things REALLY make a "good" woman?
As I read your posts, it seems as though you may not be finding a "good" woman because you seem to have such low regards for us. Not like I really should care, but I am slightly offended by the fact that you split us into these tired categories of not knowing what we want, wanting the thug life brothers, or trying to "create" a man, etc. Besides that, what about the fact that you and your "boys" have this theory that some women are so dense that you want them to shut up so you can just look at them? What makes them dense? Maybe they are not knowledgeable in a particular topic of conversation, but hold a wealth of knowledge about other things. What about other things? Have you ever made an effort to talk to a woman who was not so attractive, slim, etc.? Have you ever made the effort to help a woman work on the things that may not be up to your standards presently?
I can't speak for all women, or even most for that matter. I can't even speak for the women that visit this forum. However, I can speak for myself and say that maybe you need to check how you are stepping to these women, where you meet these women, and what you are really looking for. You should also check yourself. PLEASE do not take this as a personal attack because it's directed to all brothers who may read this: In MY PERSONAL opinion, a woman would (sometimes) rather put up a front (i.e. act "dense", aloof, uninterested, etc.), chill alone, or waste just one more day with her usual lowlife brotha before she wastes one MILLISECOND with a brotha with a stick up his azz. Feel me?