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i would probably take their advice then, but try not to write off the other chapter. also remember that in some schools, you are potentially putting your chance to be Greek at risk by rushing as a junior.
i understand the dilemma you have of not wanting to try to get to know them and then maybe offend them by not affiliating. getting to know them through rush might help. i rushed as a sophomore and so had some experience with a few girls from each chapter; in some cases, those experiences were indicative of the whole, in others, not so much. i didn't know many of my sisters at all but didn't get a strong pull from the ones i did know. i guess all i'm saying is that i understand your difficulties and why you would choose to try rushing all the chapters to find your best fit, but just wanted to put out my experience as someone who pledged a "party chapter" despite being the furthest thing possible from a partier and couldn't be happier. just so you know if you do end up liking them at rush, that it can and does work out in some instances! good luck with everything, and i hope the school you're transferring to isn't too tough on juniors rushing!
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