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Pixell, a lot of the girls in the chapter are aware of what's going on. I've even talked to my big, my g-big, and the chapter president about my situation. I've just been waiting on the all-clear to transfer before I make my decision final and officially depledge. That, and I've been waiting to make up my mind. =/
Sherrybaby, I know exactly what you mean. It's definitely food for thought. As if I needed more of that! Haha. I know there are girls of all kind in each chapter, I just felt like these girls were so different from the girls I spend my days with here; they didn't really have the attributes that drew me to my chapter. And like I said, I'm afraid to get to know them all better now that I'm pledging - I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings!
Something I thought was telling was that I was actually advised today by a few girls in my chapter - separately - NOT to initiate and to rush at my new school. They seem to think that it would be the best option. They have a bit more experience with the other chapter, but they haven't said anything about them specifically, just that the Greek life in general is a "different" experience at my new school.
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