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AEPhiAlum: I too am and AEPhi alum and as a very old married lady we too had premaritial counseling with our rabbi. My husband, who is not Jewish and I, Reform, thought it was a good experience. My concern was his antisemitic parents (they were) and the problems they would cause (they did). The counseling brought out what was lurking and how to deal with it. I think that counseling, without preaching any dogma, is an excellent venue to relax and explore your future together.
...married 31 years...and counting.
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