[M.I.A]

Your information does not follow you, except by way of people you know who know others. There won't be a paper trail on you unless you initiate.

They won't even know that I've accepted a bid? All the info I've found seems to say that all of the sororities at the university I'm transferring to will be aware I've gone through recruitment and accepted and dropped a bid. Is that not the case? I've tried searching it on here, but I must not be using the right words or something! So I apologize if there are threads already out there on this.

I did contact Panhel at the university to see about information on Spring rush/informal, but I haven't heard anything back from them yet. My initiation is coming up very soon, though. I wish I could know for sure how they feel about taking in junior-status girls, especially since my case is kind of unique. Because of CC, I'll be a junior - but I might as well be finishing off my sophomore year next semester.

And MaggieXi, I do think that in a sense, I've made up my mind - but I was definitely looking for some opinions/advice on the matter. I've made up my mind, but I'm still so uncertain that I'm right about it! I love these girls here, and it breaks my heart to think I won't be going through initiation with them and remaining here. I almost thought about switching my major just to stay here! But I know that wouldn't be for the best. It's just a rough situation overall. ):

Thanks for all the help!