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Originally posted by Aspire
For those who think that I'm being unreal about all of those things on the list I,m not I am all of those things and plus a touch extra not saying I'm God's gift to any woman but it amazes me that for all of the women that I date and have as friends that I am not somewhere Damn near marriage or even feeling like they are worth marrying- I mean all a brotha wants is that one sista to Love and adore is that to much to ask for? And even though all of you ladies offer valid points- these are things I've heard before and from females I know and when I ask them the question about what I'm asking for that I don't have -the answer is nothing so that leaves me to believe that either the sistas are B.S.ing about what they really want or are more intrested in projects or rather Not an Already Made man but one they can make?
And Once Again Please Define Your Opinions of A Good Woman maybe I'm missing something or just not looking for the right things
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For one to answer your question, I think a good woman is one who is strong, confident, ambitious, and loyal.
Secondly, I am not trying to be rude or abrasive here, but I think you are too worried about everyone else. You may possess a certain amount of all the qualities you have mentioned. Great. But all the time you have spent worrying about other people's opinions and other people's defintions of a "good woman," could have been spent getting to know yourself. And ultimately that is what is important anyway. I know that for me I am looking for a MAN (not a BOY or a MALE) who knows himself and is comfortable with that. Everything else (the confidence, ambition, etc.) will come after that. So my advice to you is to hold off on trying to look for a good woman. Start bettering yourself as a man and perhaps you will see results.