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I understand your frustration. My previous boyfriend who broke up with me over a year ago, who is now getting married this month, found the need to call me 2 months ago and explain to me that he felt he lost his best friend when he broke up with me and would like to see if we could be friends again. He began to explain his regrets with regards to me and our relationship and I just found it extremely inappropriate that he would bring it up not only a year later when we've both moved on but also 2 months shy of his own wedding.
I think your ex is feeling like he has lost in every relationship even though he ended it. Basically he sees you getting married and happy but he's not. Maybe he wants to bring your happiness down by being in touch with you or maybe he just wants some reassurance that he did the right thing.
But you are right you have better things to worry about than him. Dont respond to his email, it will only encourage him, and focus on what's important in your life right now which is obviously not him.
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