He was probably feeling very low and anxious because it seems that several exes had just told him that he "ruined their life." That would be enough to make anyone start to wonder what they did wrong.
But that said, any girl who thinks that their ex dumping her ruined her life has a problem of her own. Where did he find these girls? (I mean, you might feel that way during the immediate depression of a breakup, but years later?) And it's always a bad idea to call up people from your past and ask them very personal questions. You can't really get closure that way, which is what he was trying to do.
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