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Originally Posted by just_peachy06
I think we intimidated a lot of quality members by appearing to be too "perfect" though. Casual is the way to go!
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This has
ZERO to do with a structured schedule of parties. Just because you structure things a little, does not mean that girls who normally don't get more formal than wearing flats have to put on $300 dresses & a pound of makeup, get manicures and air kiss everyone.
This is the kind of thing that drives me absolutely effing crazy. Rush is whatever the women at the school make it. Scheduling and consideration for other groups - and most importantly, consideration for the PNMs so they can see all the groups and make the decision that's best FOR THEM - does NOT turn you into Stepford U. If you put that onus on yourselves, that's your own dumb fault.