I have to agree here - you shouldn't have to choose whether to wear your boyfriend's letters or your own. If he won't compromise on this, he won't compromise down the road when you're talking marriage, kids, house, job, etc. Wear your letters *and* his instead! He wants you "to be proud enough of his letters to wear them alone" - that I get - but you are proud of your own letters too. So wear both! On separate chains if that would make him happy. JMO