Okay Well I like the charm bracelet thing.. he says that wearing his lavaliere is my way of telling the world that we are together and committed... like a wedding ring would be.. and he doesn't want me to wear my lavaliere with his because he wants me to be proud enough of his letters to wear them alone..
I understand his point and on my campus girls that wear lavalieres don't wear them with their own... so that I get. Lavaliering on my campus is really common actually.. after six months most guys are expected to... I dated another fraternity guy for a year and a half and he had lavaliered someone before me and wanted to do it to me too and I told him no, that he was only allowed to do it once and that even if it was a mistake, he had to live with that.. The only policy my current boyfriend's fraternity has is that you can only give your letters to one girl one time, that is it! SO I know it is special to him...
Can I get a guys perspective?
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