My long term boyfriend is a GDI (and very proud of this) and he was NOT HAPPY when I decided to pledge my sorority. He thought I was selling out and that I would never have time for him because I would be hanging out with "all the frat boys". Whatever. He eventually got over it when he saw that my sorority wasn't ruling my life. Not that he always understood everything that went on but he did become tolerant. We attended different universities and where he went to school and had Greek friends they were always busy with their GLO. At my school being Greek is not the end-all-be-all of campus. I would have regretted not joining just because my boyfriend didn't like it. In the end it matters who you are--not what letters you may or may not be wearing.
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