[dekeguy]

After reading this thread I was working on a balanced reply that I hoped would address the issues of freedom, personal rights, taking responsibility for one's actions, considering the feelings of others, honoring the ideals of your house, being true to yourself, being protective of your house's reputation, and so on and so forth... and then my sister (looking over my shoulder as I scrolled through to see if I had covered all the important bits) said the one word I had not seen anywhere in this discussion. "Tacky!"
Woah, think I'll just pipe down in the face of eloquence.