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Originally posted by tammy-
I feel if everyone works on improving themselves, when you meet Mr. or Ms. Right - You will be ready! God is on his on time so just be patient and love will meet you head up...........
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Tammy, I have to agree with you. All good things will come in time.
However, I have to respond to Aspire. You are putting the burden of proof on the shoulders of women. That is not fair at all. What is it that you have to offer? Are you as handsome as some women expect men to be? Are you big fine like Morris Chestnut? Can you surprise me with trips to Paris on a whim? Can you hold an intellectual conversation about the state of affairs in our community? (These are all rhetorical questions by the way!
) The point is, you get what you have to offer sometimes. You can't expect to attract dimes if you are only three pennies. Sometimes when we are unhappy with what we get, we have to evaluate ourselves. Not saying that you should expect anything but the best for yourself, but we just have to do a little "soul searching." Maybe you have to tighten up your "game," approach, conversation, etc. Also change your mindset. In your post, you stated that "a lot" of women are dense. That's not a fair statement. SOME women are dense, as are men. If you keep in mind that women are dense, gold diggers, etc., that is all you are going to meet. Give it a try.
P.S. If you can't MATCH or EXCEED the qualities that you look for in a good woman, how can you expect to be labeled as a "good man?" Think about it.