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No, you weren't wrong. You were honest. You are very young still...you're 18. A lot can happy during college. I came to college with my high school sweetheart and we thought we'd be together forever. But, when grew up and, ultimately, grew apart. I thank goodness for that. My single days were a chance for me to grow and learn about myself and what I wanted. It gave me a chance to decide exactly what I wanted in a guy. Maybe you need that time. If you're unsure if you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, then I think you need to "shop around". If you get tied down to him, you may end up regretting it and take out that frustration on him. I'm sure that it sucks being in his shoes. He's 21 I'm guessing right? He's had a bit more time to decide what he wants and he's a little bit older so he's thinking of the future. Ask him if you can have a break in the relationship for a month or two and see what happens. It won't be easy but you'll never regret not seeing the different guys that are out there while you were in college.
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