Hello, ASouthernBelle! We're always happy to greet another sisterfriend.
And you're right, ... DISCRETION is a must when considering joining MY sorority, however, the answers you seek from a PUBLIC message board creates an insecurity that does NOT coincide with the whole "discretion" thingy, does it?
I advise you to get to know members of that chapter, mingle, network and make sure that my sorors notice YOU. Good luck to you.