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Originally Posted by knight_shadow
In the grand scheme of things, though, fighting for a big/little seems a bit silly.
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Concur. Let your Little do as she sees fit. She can designate someone as a pseudo-Big. When I was an active, my Little, Dena, transferred after one year. Then my Twin Star, Melissa (we had the same big) dropped out for no apparent reason, and she left a little (Lisa) who was in the same pledge class as Dena. I became Lisa's pseudo-Big. Melissa was still her Big, and Dena was still my little, but for gifting and family activity stuff, I served as Lisa's Big. I spoiled her little, my pseudo-grand-Little Katie, rotten. Melissa and Dena were never offended.