And this will effect your relationship how? You chose to leave your chapter. Let your little sis have whatever relationship she wants/needs in the chapter. Does she want an "adopted" big sis? This doesn't have to replace you, but you aren't there anymore. If she doesn't want a new big, encourage her to stand up for herself, but if she does, be the bigger person and give her the okay to move on. You can still be her "real" big sis without being jealous that she has another sister filling in for you now that you've gone. It's up to you to continue your relationship with her despite the fact that you no longer are an active part of your chapter, but you can't be mad that leaving has left a void for her.
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