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So by the way, it took me about 4 seconds to figure out what school you go to, so I'd be careful what you say here. But please keep in mind that it takes time for a new chapter to establish itself on campus. As you said, they don't even have the housing they need yet to really be a part of the campus culture. IF you can give them a chance and can be part of the growth and establishment they need, you may have all those things you desire by the time you graduate.
Before you throw in the towel you might look into the plans they have for a dorm floor or a house or something. It might make a huge difference in your feeling part of something. Choosing to go to a boyfriend's apartment for a new member gathering was not a very smooth plan, but I'd make sure it was just one stupid mistake and not an ongoing way of handling things.
You do have to do what's going to make you happy, and it's too bad you weren't explained thoroughly enough the repercussions of what you put on your pref card, but please keep in mind that Greek membership is for a lifetime and it can be very fulfilling, even when you're in the small chapter on campus. Good luck!
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