Point well taken however, the first thing that generally attracts people are the visual- granted it is noted that women are more apt to look past that than men but hey!!!!!!

For my particular case it's not even about the visual- I mean pretty faces are all over the place,but oh when they open their mouth -you can feel like one of my boys says" just be quiet and let me look at you" mainly becaus alot of women are dense- they say one thing and then you see them dating something else- it's like women are construction works just looking for some dude they can stamp their label on and say look at what I made him

,but when they find someone who seems to be up front, honest, and just an all around good guy

he's more detesting than the beat on you cheat on you, ride another female in your car type nigga

and no matter how you argue it- i have one thing to say check out the pains that you and your girlfriend are going through while some good guy is chilling alone