[ZTAMelissa]

I totally agree that these girls just don't know any better. I remember that when I went through formal rush, I really wanted to be an AXiD or an A-Phi, but I wasn't like, that's what I'm gonna be. I do remember some girls saying, "well I'm gonna be an AOPi they told me I was in," and then they didn't get in and it was sad. I'm going to a Recruitment Counselor (no longer called Rho Chi, sigh) and I'm gonna make damn sure the girls know they have to be chosen just as much as they choose! It's a little something called "mutual selection," ya know?

But I must say that as a PNM, I can see where those girls are coming from. I also believe, though, that it is in very poor taste to talk about other orgs while in a rush room with another org. I didn't know much about the greek system as a PNM, but I knew enough to know that was rude, so some of those girls are just plain tactless, period.