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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
You definitely want to focus on grades, and let's work with what you have, and not a crystal ball. Like DubaiSis said, go to the Greek Life Office and make a serious inquiry into grades and where you stand. If chapters with lower requirements are participating in open bidding, and you can handle any rejectment, go for it. If you're at a competitive school, you need to be aware that your grades, your year in school, and other factors can and will work against you. My school is not really competitive, and your GPA would be an issue here.
Focus on school this fall, and into the spring, heck even in the summer (because that's why we go to college, no?) and see where it lands you. Even if you decide to not attempt to join a sorority, you will have better grades, and that is always a good thing. Be honest with yourself about your stats, your school, and what you can handle. Oh an if you can balance it, join a club or volunteer (perhaps for class credit?) because studying all the time makes one boring, and you will have something for a resume and recs. Don't forget to get recs.
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THIS.
Another thought: have you made friends, or are you friendly with, any actives in any chapters? Not the superficial kind of "friend" that can be easily seen through (as in, you're only talking with someone because they are in a chapter). Rather, the kind that is in a study group for a class, or belongs to the same club and participates actively alongside others. THAT kind of friend.
I don't know you, I don't know your school, and I'm not blowing rainbows or whatever (I'm not that kind of person). I am an advisor at a campus with a fairly competitive recruitment (NOT the SEC, NOT Texas! I know, I know). I'm recommending that you keep focusing on your studies and grades, and take your best shot. You already know the facts and realities of the world you live in. Do what you can to maximize your chances.
It only takes one, in every sense of the word. Your membership is for a lifetime and you will find friends in all GLO chapters, if you're so inclined. I bang that drum loudly every chance I get here, because I look at my Panhellenic sisters as being my sisters in this journey called life, and my fraternity membership is invaluable to me.