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Just to be clear - I didn't want to exclude you. It's just that sometimes the PNMs don't understand the rules, they just do what they're told, and an active or alumna might have been able to state it more clearly. But I think you explained it as well as could be expected for a pretty free and loose recruitment style.
It sounds to me like your campus IS trying to be innovative and I hope it works well. I think all of us on GC are real cheerleaders for being Greek, and any method that encourages membership and successfully matches women to lifetime membership is a win in my book.
And yes, your friends probably should have been a little more careful, but if it's a small campus and your best friends are in the chapter, it's not the same thing as a chapter at Bama or Arkansas bid promising to a freshman PNM. When it becomes a problem is when they can't actually come through with their promise.
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