[33girl]

If you have a lot of good friends in this chapter, they might have just been being overly familiar and not thought of it as a rush infraction. (They're nervous too and screw up sometimes too.) I'm going back in my memory bank and thinking of a couple of times we did things like that with people we knew very well that could be misintepreted.

Of course, it depends on what you mean by "friends" - are these people you hang out with every weekend, or just people you know from class and your dorm? If it's the latter, honestly, I would tell the Rho Chi to go ahead and pass the info on.