[victoriana]

Okay, DubaiSis, I know you said not to reply but I will anyways because I don't think I explained it very well, I was pretty exhausted when I wrote that and I understand it better now.

So we had 2 rounds with each chapter, fast 20 minute meetings, then longer philanthropy/craft rounds. We don't get invited back to either of those, they are open to everyone. At the end of day 3, the PNMs did not rank anyone. For house tours, the chapters invite girls that they are interested in back just to help the PNMs narrow it down. However, since my school is trying to be innovative and give everyone a fair shot, a PNM can return to a chapter she was not invited to and try to make a better impression on them if she so chooses. Chapters and PNMs do not "cut" anyone until it comes down to choosing for preference. After house tours, then the ranking and cutting, ect. happens. I think the reason why they do this is because they know it's hard for girls to get to know a chapter (and a chapter to get to know a girl). This is the explanation we got from our Rho Chis, anyways. I hope this helps anyone who is confused understand it better. It took pretty much everyone in my RC group three nights to get a grasp on the system, haha.