[Alumiyum]

You don't have to be friends with everyone. Try hard to seek out people that you would choose as friends even if none of you were in a sorority together. Don't get hung up on being BFF with a large group. If that doesn't happen, it doesn't. But you can certainly still have a rewarding experience as an active. It's the close friends...in the sorority or not...that you will keep up with during and after college.

I can tell you I was never part of a group or clique within my chapter, most of my good friends are either independent or not Greek, and I didn't bond with my pledge class in general. I don't feel like I was shorted at all during my collegiate experience. I still went out with the large groups when they went to parties, still hung out with a select few on a one on one basis, and still had fun at our chapter events. To me, what makes a sisterhood different from a club is the fact that you have that bond through ritual with all your sorority sisters, whether you're BFF with them or not.