[FSUZeta]

please talk to your big sister, your new member coordinator(pledge mom, pledge trainer whatever you call her)AND someone you do feel closer to in the sorority. Please don't suffer in silence.

it sounds like you are giving it a good try. you are going to dinner, attending meetings and activities. have you tried to invite some of your pledge sisters that you feel close to out for a coffee or frozen yogurt? i bet there are a couple of girls in your pledge class who are having doubts just like you.

many, many chapters forget to KROP-keep rushing our pledges(new member just doesn't work here)-it's not that they are not happy you joined, but that classes, studying, activities get in the way.

please keep in touch and let us know how it is going.